Girls Bed In A Bag

OK A bed in a bag ... .. two children. What should your child go?

My 12 year old makes his bed every morning, I found her sheets and blankets on the floor, bare mattress and sleeping dogs nice and comfortable on his own duvet ...

Or my 6 years old, sleeping in the same room, retains its own bed and straightened as it can and everything stays in its place.

Both girls will be jealous if I give it to one or the other. I was planning to give my youngest because I know they will stay on the bed .... My oldest son will think I love her more.

If I give to my eldest, the youngest will be jealous and innovations are the new dog bed in the morning.

I do not have beds, do I configure my oldest daughters bed mix and match skirts and comforters, trying o make it look flashy and still give the younger new bed in a bag?

Seriously, I know this may seem ridiculous, but if you have two or more children, you should be able to understand my confusion.

I do not think I want one more than the love of another. Who should get the bed in a bag? (Comforter, full set of sheets, bed skirt, pillowcases and pillow cases)

Hmmmm .... Good. Sit the children down and tell them that the dilemma. Tell them both that the elder is not his dog bed and throw themselves on the new stuff you embarrassment - and that you really admire and appreciate your efforts to keep his younger spa tidy .... But .. .. you are concerned, knowing that you only have one BedInABag and you love both equally and differently to their individual qualities. Then you can (a) ask for their help in reaching a conclusion on who he is, so I feel as fair as possible to all interested or (b) you can tell them that you put aside and put money to get a 2nd one if the two may have one or (c) say that the only thing you can find is drawing straws (or another method based solely on the chance to know who he is). .. Or (d) give it to a place that houses abused or neglected children - and you have your daughters away. There is always someone who needs a more desperate. ... Talk with girls of all this. Whether a culture and a learning experience in caring, sharing, get something or not getting something, the thought of others .... etc.
Good luck.

Why not divide things into it to give both girls a little of what they want? If they do not like what they get, they can continue to operate from front to back.

If this does not work, why not get another one and let them choose who should do what? That would make both happy, and you would not keep worrying about what one of them will think. I hope this helped!

It appears that you treat them different now. I am not trying to be mean, but you make a difference between them. Why not wait until you can get another if they both have one or use it for a spare part.

Give the youngest and the oldest wants, if she maintains her own bed for the next month, you will get it one.

Or if she complains, tell him to stop.

Give him back and tell her she needs to find someone else to give ..... Thank you for thinking of us .... but one could feel left out and I can not do that.

Ask who wants it. Your elder may not even be interested. If they are both, you can buy another to keep them both happy ... where you can just put it in a closet and not to think.

Reward the youngest to keep his own space. Tell the oldest until she proves that she can take care of nice things, you do not receive beautiful things.

Go find another so that they will both have new bedding.

Ask them who wants, if they all do, th.